Welcome!!
The Billys is a community of hundreds of open-hearted gay, bi and queer men who join together in Gatherings six times a year in extraordinary rural venues throughout Northern California. Each gathering is a work of art, carefully crafted by Billys to take us to places of joy and playfulness, intimacy and openness. We come together to play games, hike, make yummy food, play music, cuddle, meditate, frolic, do yoga and learn from each other.
The crown jewel of nearly every Billy gathering is something we call Heart Circle – a time to share what’s on our hearts and listen with an open-heart. It is the juice that has kept our community going since 1988. Between gatherings, some Billys meet for potlucks and Heart Circles, for hikes or to help each other out, to do fund-raising or to attend cultural events together.
Upcoming Gatherings


Food, frolicking, swimming, and heart space, not necessarily in that order, are the keywords for our most rambunctious and active gathering of the year.
Our Labor Day gathering is typically the most laid-back and relaxing gathering, perfect for celebrating the end of summer and warm weather.
Costuming, dancing and visioning our place in the world are happening this Halloween, arguably the most creative gathering we hold.
Get involved at Gatherings! And come to our other fun events!
Eating, swimming and frolicking in the woods are only half the story. What goes on behind every gathering is a community of people offering their vision and talents to create these magical events. The payoff? Being part of an intentional community and sharing one’s unique skills and open heart.
Want to get involved or receive more information? Call us at 707.545.1044. If this is your first inquiry, let us contact you by providing us information on our Contact Us page.
