The Billys is a community of hundreds of open-hearted gay, bi and queer men who join together in Gatherings six times a year in extraordinary rural venues throughout Northern California. Each gathering is a work of art, carefully crafted by Billys to take us to places of joy and playfulness, intimacy and openness. We come together to play games, hike, make yummy food, play music, cuddle, meditate, frolic, do yoga, and learn from each other.

heart to heart
The crown jewel of nearly every Billy gathering is something we call Heart Circle – a time to share what’s on our hearts and listen with an open heart. It is the juice that has kept our community going since 1988. Between gatherings, some Billys meet for potlucks and Heart Circles, for hikes or to help each other out, to do fundraising or to attend cultural events together.

Upcoming Gathering

The Power of Story: Exploring Our Personal Queer Mythologies

Billy New Year’s Gathering

December 27, 2019 – January 1, 2020

St. Dorothy’s Rest, Camp Meeker, CA

Scholarship deadline is December 4, 2019 at Midnight

Registration will CLOSE Monday, December 16, 2019 at Midnight


Call (with paper registration) available HERE

This gathering is open to Billys (gay, bi, or queer-identified men, including trans men) and Billy Kin (everyone!)

Eating, swimming and frolicking in the woods are only half the story. What goes on behind every gathering is a community of people offering their vision and talents to create these magical events. The payoff? Being part of an intentional community and sharing one’s unique skills and open heart. We love new Billys, join us!

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