Welcome!

The Billys is a community of hundreds of open-hearted gay, bi and queer men who join together in Gatherings six times a year in extraordinary rural venues throughout Northern California. Each gathering is a work of art, carefully crafted by Billys to take us to places of joy and playfulness, intimacy and openness. We come together to play games, hike, make yummy food, play music, cuddle, meditate, frolic, do yoga, and learn from each other.

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Saturday Heart Circle

Please join us for Heart Circle, where we “sit” gently together, holding space for each other and sharing deeply. Heart Circle is where community is

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Thursday Heart Circle

Please join us for Heart Circle, where we “sit” gently together, holding space for each other and sharing deeply. Heart Circle is where community is

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Announcements

September Billy Talk Podcast

This episode includes an interview with Scotty Millay King, a Billy Board member, discussing his new proposal about enhancing our appreciation and documentation of workshops

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Limitless Possibilities

The first ever online Billy Gathering was a fabulous success, with over 135 Billys attending from all over the world. We welcomed new Billys and

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Your Billy Board Needs You

YOUR BILLY BOARD NEEDS YOU! Several current members will be completing their terms in the next several months and stepping down. The Board will need

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Thank You Volunteers!

Thanks to a small and dedicated group of volunteers, the contents of the Billy office have been relocated to our new storage unit in Rohnert

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Halloween Gathering Update

At the August Board of Directors Meeting, the Billy Board agreed to cancel the in-person Halloween Gathering planned for October at Saratoga Springs Retreat Center.

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Billy Emergency Support Fund

With many Billys evacuated because of the fires in Northern California – remember the Billy Emergency Support Fund (BESF). It’s for Billys needing financial support

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